Authentic Islamic Books on Marriage and the Duties of a Muslim Husband
(Qur’an and Authentic Sunnah Only)
Marriage in Islam is not built on cultural norms, modern psychology, or contemporary gender theories. It is built on revelation, responsibility, mercy, patience, and taqwā, as understood and practiced by the Salaf al-Ṣāliḥīn.
Allah said:
“And live with them in kindness.” (Qur’an 4:19)
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
“The best of you are the best to their families.” (Sunan al-Tirmidhi 3895)
Below is a carefully selected list of reliable, Sunni, Salafi-oriented books that explain the duties of a Muslim husband, marital conduct, leadership, and understanding women strictly through the Qur’an and authentic Sunnah.
1. Advice on Marriage – Shaykh Ibn Ṣāliḥ al-ʿUthaymīn
A concise and direct work focusing on:
- The responsibilities of a husband
- Qiwāmah and leadership with justice
- Balancing firmness with mercy
- Patience with marital differences
Key hadith principle used throughout: “A believing man should not hate a believing woman. If he dislikes one of her traits, he is pleased with another.” (Sahih Muslim 1469)
Free PDF:
https://archive.org/details/the-concise-marriage-manual-by-imaam-muhammad-ibn-saalih-al-uthaymeen
2. The Etiquette of Marriage – Imām al-Nawawī
A classical Sunnah-based compilation covering:
- Intention in marriage
- Good companionship
- Sexual rights and mutual fulfillment
- Conflict resolution and patience
Foundational hadith: “Treat women kindly.” (Sahih Muslim 1468)
Free PDF:
https://d1.islamhouse.com/data/en/ih_books/single/en_The_Etiquettes_of_Marriage_and_Wedding2.pdf
3. The Prophet’s Advice to Women – Shaykh ʿAbdul-ʿAzīz ibn Bāz
Although addressed to women, this book is essential reading for men. It explains:
- The emotional and natural disposition of women
- Rights and obligations within marriage
- Household harmony based on obedience to Allah
Core verse referenced: “Men are caretakers of women.” (Qur’an 4:34)
4. Fatawa Islamiyyah on Marriage
(Shaykh Ibn Bāz, Shaykh Ibn ʿUthaymīn, Permanent Committee)
A scholarly reference answering real marital issues, including:
- Authority and limits of the husband
- Financial obligations and maintenance
- Discipline within Sharīʿah boundaries
- Divorce, reconciliation, and justice
Key hadith: “Each of you is a shepherd and each of you is responsible for his flock.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 2554)
Free PDF (selected sections):
https://www.scribd.com/document/772242586/Marital-Relationships-Shaykh-Ibn-Baaz
5. A Summary of Islamic Jurisprudence – Shaykh Ṣāliḥ al-Fawzān
For structured fiqh clarity, the marriage chapters explain:
- Legal duties of the husband
- Maintenance, housing, and provision
- Justice and accountability before Allah
Foundational verse: “And they have rights similar to those over them, according to what is reasonable.” (Qur’an 2:228)
6. Bulūgh al-Marām – Book of Marriage
(Imām Ibn Ḥajar al-ʿAsqalānī)
A hadith-based reference detailing:
- Conditions of nikāḥ
- Rights of spouses
- Prophetic marital conduct
Includes the hadith: “The woman was created from a rib.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 3331)
Core Islamic Principle on Understanding Women
Women are not understood through modern ideology, but through revelation.
The Prophet ﷺ taught gentleness, patience, justice, and responsible leadership, not emotional neglect or oppression. A successful marriage is rooted in obedience to Allah, sound ʿaqīdah, sabr, and mercy.
Allah said:
“And among His signs is that He created for you spouses that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Qur’an 30:21)
This reading list provides a complete Qur’an and Sunnah framework for Muslim husbands seeking righteous leadership and stable marriages, free from cultural distortions and modern ideological influence.
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